双语:关于爱情年轻的我们要知道的9件事(2)
If you’re in a relationship where your partner constantly needs to be the center of attention and won’t let you have interests of your own or time to yourself, you need to get out of that. Realize that it’s not only acceptable to put yourself first, but it’s necessary when you’re young and still have so much growing and learning to do。
爱你自己
9. Love yourself
let your spouse reach some of their personal goals. It’s ok to put others before yourself if you’re being supportive and not letting your own needs and wants fall to the wayside, but it shouldn’t become a habit。
如果在你的恋爱关系中,你的另一半总是想成为关注的焦点,而不能让你拥有自己的兴趣或者时间,你就应该结束这段关系。要明白,优先为自己考虑不仅可以接受,而且在年轻的时候是必须的,因为你还有很多成长空间,还可以学会很多。
You’ll fall in love with good people and you’ll fall in love with bad people, but above all, you need to love yourself. If you love who you are, then you’ll be more open to loving others. Love is always a great thing to share, but loving yourself also means you won’t have to find that love in others. You can love someone without needing something from them to feel validated. Loving yourself is the most powerful love you can experience。
如果你有足够的支持,也不会让自己的需求丢在一旁,优先考虑他人是可以的,但这不应该成为一种习惯。
你会爱上好人,也会爱上坏人,但最重要的是你要爱自己。如果你爱自己,你就会更加包容地去爱别人。爱永远是值得分享的好东西,但爱自己也意味着你不需要从别人那里获取爱。你可以爱上某个人而不需要从他/她那里得到什么来确保爱的感受。爱自己是你所能经历的最强大的爱。
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